Many people have told me that having a sibling is basically like living in hell but at the same time, “siblings are the only enemy that you can’t live without”. From an outsider’s point of view, there are three very important and amazing things about having a sibling:
1. Having someone you can count on, even in the future
Whether it be for a little bit of advice or extreme emotional support, siblings will be there. I conducted a survey from which 77% said that they could count on their siblings in times of need whilst the other 23% said the opposite due to age differences or lack of connection. It is always nice to know you have someone that you can rely on no matter what.
2. Motivate you to be a happier person when you are down There are always going to be times that you feel down but just having someone around your age in your family to comfort you or motivate you can be a great motivator. Whilst your parents and your friends are a great source for this at times, but sometimes you just want to talk to someone who lives in the same household to you, has similar experiences to you and will listen to you. I feel that siblings are great for this because no matter how much they may irritate you, they will also support you and lift your mood when the time comes.
3. Not have the pressure to be the best in the eyes of your parents
This is coming from a bit of experience. My parents are absolutely amazing and entertaining and this kinda makes me want to be the best in their eyes. The pressure of making them proud and living up to the family name is solely on me. Now, I know that this is not what they intended, that they want me to be the person I am and make myself proud but it's just not that easy. Do you only children feel me on this? I have only ever heard the banter between siblings. I have only ever sat and watched whilst siblings showed their affection towards each other. I have only imagined what it would be like to have siblings that you can count on in the future. I believe that having a sibling is considered a gift. Fight with them and annoy them but also to cherish them and never forget to tell them how much you love them. I have heard countless times how lucky I am because I am an only child. The truth is that there are pros and cons to everything and you can’t control that, BUT I am still ‘team siblings’ all the way.
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By Tanya
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